wow where did the time go? Five years ago I was nine months pregnant and we were on the cusp of the covid pandemic. We weren’t wearing masks everywhere we went just yet (remember in the beginning when the advice was to save PPE for first responders?) but we were staying home to “flatten the curve.” THANKFULLY Mike was able to be my side for Cam’s entire birth – even stepping out for a burger and fries after we made our way to the recovery room (again Cam was born in the very early stages of the pandemic when hospitals weren’t having you isolate once you checked in, etc) – but, sadly, no one else was able to meet our little baby in person.

Baby posts: 4th trimester – P1 | 4th trimester – P2 | 3-6 months | 6 – 9 months | 9 – 12 months

When my mat leave ended in September 2020 my mom joined “our bubble” and watched Cam 3 days a week while Mike and I worked from home. On the days she wasn’t there we alternated hours with Cam, surviving on caffeine and context switching (I might not ever forget making last minute tweaks to an Audit Committee deck while changing a diaper and trying to entertain Cam – what a time). We rallied like this for an entire year; enjoying one family trip to Tahoe to celebrate our 2 year wedding anniversary right after Mike and I were vaccinated, feeling lucky for a layer of protection. Finally. (Cam also should have gotten antibodies through breastfeeding.)

When Cam was a year and a half, we flew to Canada for Cam to meet Mike’s family. Mike’s parents flew back with us and we all huddled in our small 2 bedroom home for 6 months to keep Cam out of school as long as possible.

The month before Cam turned two, he started at a Montessori school. I still feel lucky that they let us tour the school before his first day and let us actually walk in for drop off and pick up. I know others who had to part with their babies at the door of a place they had never been inside.

In April 2022 Cam got covid, after being at his school for 2 months. We isolated with him but were already vaccinated and actually never ended up getting it ourselves. Cam couldn’t get vaccinated yet but luckily his symptoms were mild. Shout out to my mom and one of my besties, Lauren, for bringing us groceries during those 14 days at home. The next month we returned to Tahoe for our second family trip there.

The one possible good thing about Cam getting covid was, we theorized, based on research we read (since we all become medical professionals during those years) he probably built up antibodies before we traveled to Spain (!) that summer. When we got back, Cam was finally vaccinated and we just had a really fun summer with friends who all had kids around the same age and lived on the same street.

We traveled back to Canada in Fall and covid felt mostly over by then. What a relief.

We took a trip to Hawaii to kick off 2023 and then celebrated Cam’s third birthday in Disneyland. It was a lucky year because we went back to Hawaii (and then Tahoe for year 3) a few months later. When we were in Tahoe that year, Mike and I decided we wanted another baby; a sibling for Cam!

That Fall we visited Vancouver and a few months later I was pregnant with Kenna (after another quick trip to Hawaii)! Before her arrival, we spent a day in Disney and went back to Toronto to spend time with family. Cam started TK after a mini staycation and we headed south again to visit Legoland.

For the past few months we’ve been hunkered down, getting into the rhythm of a family of four. Cam is the best big brother. He is so sweet and caring, always saying he wants to cuddle with Kenna and asking where she is. He has established himself at his new school and it’s been so fun to see him grow. Most days he says something that makes me lol for real. I love his wit and sense of humor, the way he sees the world, and how purely sweet he is. He doesn’t seem to be caught up in what other kids think of him too much, which I admire and hope it takes him far. He loves cars (still. always.), riding bikes with daddy, playdates with friends, DEEP baths, the pool (unless it is for swim lessons, yikes), mac n cheese, and all TREATS. He has this cute little laugh when he gets excited; alternates between shy and adventurous; and is just a really good kid. We are so happy he is our little dude.

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To capture a snapshot of what he is like right now, I “interviewed” him last night during bath:

What was your favorite part of your birthday? Eating cheese puffs. (This is something he does everyday)

What is your favorite thing to do at school? Doing art.

What is your favorite thing to learn at school? Where do cracks come from. (Not sure about this one ha but intentionally quoted the slightly bad grammar of his response because, even though I know we are supposed to correct it, it’s so cute to me how he curates sentences. Another favorite Cam-ism is when he calls me and Mike “my mommy” and “my daddy”)

If you could eat one thing all day everyday for a week what would it be? Mac n’ cheese.

What is your favorite book? Pete the Cat.

What if your favorite movie? The Polar Express.

What is your favorite sport? Basketball.

What is your least favorite food? Cheese. (Ignore that his favorite food is mac n’ cheese)

What do you want to learn how to do? How to ride my bike with pedals. (This is good because the “pedal fairy” is coming to our house. As she does, when kids turn five.)

What’s your favorite TV Show? Magic School Bus.

What are your favorite activities? To build.

What is your favorite thing to do with Kenna? Say “hi Kenna.”

What is your favourite thing to do with Daddy? Play cars with him.

What is your favorite thing to do with Mommy? Cuddle with her hair. (To elaborate, when we cuddle in the morning or at night, I flip my hair onto his pillow and he lays his little head down on my hair. It feels like one of those things that he will eventually stop doing out of nowhere and I will miss how close it made our cuddles (my head is literally right near his with little ability to move without pulling my hair haha))

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And with that, HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAM! I love you.